In a year where so many people died suddenly this collection renders like a loosening grip the heart-aching ways in which we each die gradually, piece by piece – through a mother’s cancer, a father’s dementia, and the parts of ourselves we never get back from grief. Poetry v. atrophy: let’s go let go.
— Tom
In a year where so many people died suddenly, this collection renders like a loosening grip the heart-aching ways in which we each die gradually, piece by piece – through a mother’s cancer, a father’s dementia, and the parts of ourselves we never get back from grief. Poetry v. atrophy: let’s go let go.
— Tom
Obit is a masterclass in grief—a courageous and tender confrontation with the reality of loss. With each poem taking the form of a newspaper obituary, Victoria Chang soberly names and explores different aspects of the loss she experienced with the death of her mother and when her father had a stroke. For those who have experienced loss, and for those who have found it difficult to face the reality of its pain, Obit becomes a guide through the land of grief, without giving niceties, platitudes, or solutions, but by offering a glimpse into one person's lamenting soul.
— Genay
Description
The New York Times 100 Notable Books of 2020Time Magazine's 100 Must-Read Books of 2020NPR's Best Books of 2020National Book Award in Poetry, LonglistFrank Sanchez Book Award After her mother died, poet Victoria Chang refused to write elegies. Rather, she distilled her grief during a feverish two weeks by writing scores of poetic obituaries for all she lost in the world. In Obit, Chang writes of "the way memory gets up after someone has died and starts walking." These poems reinvent the form of newspaper obituary to both name what has died ("civility," "language," "the future," "Mother's blue dress") and the cultural impact of death on the living. Whereas elegy attempts to immortalize the dead, an obituary expresses loss, and the love for the dead becomes a conduit for self-expression. In this unflinching and lyrical book, Chang meets her grief and creates a powerful testament for the living. "When you lose someone you love, the world doesn't stop to let you mourn. Nor does it allow you to linger as you learn to live with a gaping hole in your heart. Indeed, this daily indifference to being left behind epitomizes the unique pain of grieving. Victoria Chang captures this visceral, heart-stopping ache in Obit, the book of poetry she wrote after the death of her mother. Although Chang initially balked at writing an obituary, she soon found herself writing eulogies for the small losses that preceded and followed her mother's death, each one an ode to her mother's life and influence. Chang also thoughtfully examines how she will be remembered by her own children in time."--Time Magazine
About the Author
Born in Detroit, Michigan to Taiwanese immigrants, Victoria Chang was educated at the University of Michigan, Harvard University, and Stanford Business School and holds an MFA in poetry from the Warren Wilson MFA Program for Writers. She is the author of five books of poetry, including Circle; Salvinia Molesta; and The Boss, which received a PEN Center USA Literary Award as well as a California Book Award. Her children's picture book, Is Mommy? was named a New York Times Notable Book. She lives in Southern California with her family and serves as the Program Chair of Antioch's Low-Residency MFA Program.
